Love Outside The Box | Free Book
Join author and relationships expert Deane Thomas as he encourages
readers to begin their journey toward satisfying and permanent love
of self -- so essential for day-to-day living and happiness..
You’ll
learn how self-love is every person’s right, and how we are born
with it. Find out why it is that, for most of us, self-love seems to
get lost along the way as we focus more on others’ needs at the
expense of our own.
“Love is an essence that lives within
each of us -- very pure and very real,” the author says. Learn how
to find your own “Twin Soul,” and begin experiencing that deep-down
feeling of completion that only comes when a relationship is truly
grounded in love.
This book offers solid advice and
concrete commentary on how your feelings of self-love might have
become buried over time and what to do to reclaim it.
Remember.
Love begins and ends with each of us. It is an amazing energy that
should be shared without condition or expectation.
Learn
to look in a mirror and love what you see each day. Love Outside the
Box will help you do that.
In The Press
In his ground breaking new book Love Outside the Box, author and
relationships expert Deane Thomas encourages readers to begin their
journey toward satisfying and permanent love by first looking within
themselves.
The book is a treasure trove of excellent
advice and commentary on the subject of love -- both of self and
others. And Thomas, through insightful commentary and personal
anecdotes, will soon stimulate your own "out of the box" thinking on
this critical subject.
"We learn from the moment of
conception," Thomas says. "But the constant within us remains a pure
love energy. We are created in love, and our basis for existence is
love. Indeed,the very essence of our creation is love."
In
addition, he asserts that love is a powerful energy that takes us over
if we truly allow it to.
For generations, and, in
fact, as far back as humans have roamed the planet, we have been
trying to decipher and make sense of the emotion of love -- with its
myriad of manifestations and applications. In the final analysis,
however, love is intensely personal and is the vivid force that speaks
most directly to us --and to our souls.
A little
further on in the book, Thomas asserts that barriers to love are
everywhere and we must be constantly vigilant, lest we go astray in
our search. "The current moment bears no relationship to the past," he
says. "But the ego-mind will use the past to torment the present and
the future. This activity hinders us from truly experiencing what we
should be encountering or feeling."
He goes on to
point out that, in times of crisis, we tend to go into defensive or
offensive mode, and"our ego-mind comes out in its full glory." This
is, however, perfectly normal and to be expected. But it is how we
follow through with our actions that determine a constructive
outcome.
One thing is for sure, he adds. We can
never regret anything we have experienced in this life. "There is no
right or wrong," Thomas says. "There are simply lessons we learn."
Childhood
should be a happy time, with liberal doses of love being heaped upon
each and every child. But the author, relating that regular abuse --
verbal and physical -- was laid upon him in his youth, says that,
sadly, unconditional love is increasingly not the norm around the
world.
"The amount of time children spend in healthy loving environments is
slowly eroding," Thomas says, "which in the long term is not (going to
be) beneficial for the evolution of the human race." What happened to
us as a child was not our responsibility, he goes on to clarify, and
never will be. "But, somehow, we have to make peace with this
unhappy fact."
The baggage we carry is so often not
ours. "We carry other people's issues and opinions so that we may
keep them happy, or protect them in some way," he states. "Placing
yourself first is the key to happiness going forward." And, he adds,
"You can decide who will be part of your life journey in the
future."
In the section on Spirituality and the Soul
Journey, Thomas really drives home his theme of early childhood being
key to future happiness in terms of self-love and feelings of self
worth.
"Throughout the first years of life, we are
NOT taught what love is; we are shown instead, through association and
example from others, that love is associated only with an external
existence and is shared between those with whom we are close (our
family and friends). In effect, then, society is conditioning each and
everyone, from the minute we are born, on what love is and how to
express it."
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