Head, Heart, Crotch Connections: How Not to Fail in Search of Your Perfect Union is a self-help book in relational psychology written to help readers explore the nature of mind, body, spirit connections in their relationships, the type of intimate connection they have, the level of attachment it sustains, and how to overcome the difficulties that come with creating a more perfect union.

 It is a guide designed to safeguard your intimate relationship by better understanding how to connect: mentally, emotionally and physically. It offers insights into how connections actually occur and how to prevent the demise of those connections. The writer provides case examples from his clinical practice which exemplify the way relationships can flourish or fail to thrive. 

The book explains:

what head, heart, crotch connections implywhat are the 6 W's of connectionhow to identify when a relationship is starting to dissolvehow to overcome disconnectionshow trauma affects connectionshow not all connections are created equalprovides an easy formula to identify the type of intimate connection you have in your relationshipfinally how to achieve a better head, heart, crotch connection.

The ultimate goal being how to "succeed", and specifically "How Not to Fail" in search of a union that is particularly perfect for you.